Thinking More For Others

We haven’t had our first fight yet. Is this right? Perhaps because it’s within our first three months of this relationship thing. Being his girlfriend and him being my boyfriend, I find that we are well suited and quite happily settled together.

I can’t say I’m settling for him. He’s wonderful. And, I’m not sure how he feels in terms of settling for me. Is he? I’m not sure where we stand on the settling scale. I’m the odd-duck from a very educated family and he’s the odd-duck from a very strained and hard-working family. Neither of us fit in but we fit together, quite well.

Oddly enough, I can’t figure out if he’s good looking or not. My taste runs in the vein of Caucasian men. I have no opinion or judgement scale for Asians, Hispanics, Black, and etc. Perhaps my preference has blinded me to many great potential lovers. I’m thankful that the blindness has been lifted so that I can see and be with him.

MC -- Lessons

But, I’m a rather “octopus” Beta personality. I tend to network, reach out, and am very open to strangers. I’m an extroverted-introvert and quite happily so. He is not. He is quiet, reserved, and conservative. He is honest, Alpha, and very Type A, from what I’ve noticed. We’re a funny pair… quite honestly, opposite. I ask a million questions and he’s patient enough to answer them all.

Are you laughing as hard as I am? LOL. You should be. Anyways, I guess I just have to take things one day at a time. Funny how that works.

~ Cupcake


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