Love & Care

Loving and caring are two very different things. When you love someone, you naturally unconditionally care for them. You can care for someone and not feel any love for them. Loving someone requires time and effort. It requires patience and unconditional willingness on your life, finances, and will power. Loving can be the sweetest thing…

Jumping The Gun

Hello… as Cupcake, I’ve broken every rule to the relationship game… Within the first three months of dating my Stud Muffin, I’ve asked him about his past relationships, his family issues, his medical history, the future and where he sees us going, children and relatives, medical histories of his relatives, education scans, and the whole…

Sharing and Falling

My Stud Muffin and I often write the longer stuff we want to share with each other into emails. We send it back and forth while carrying on normal text conversations, and other lighter conversations in person. We’ve found this to be a way to save time and energy when we are together. It also…

My Easter Egg

If I were an Easter Bunny and you were an Easter Egg, I’d hop and I’d pop and I’d wander around Until I had you in my basket. You might be wondering what the featured image above is? Well, they are HUNDREDS of tiny cups, painted in different colors, hanging on the wall. They cover…

Easter Special: Muffin + Cupcake

Here’s a special bit of infographic about Stud Muffin and Cupcake. To better understand who they are, their personalities, and their goals as a couple. Personal goals are different but might be posted soon,… who knows? Anyways, happy Easter!! Much love!!

Thinking More For Others

We haven’t had our first fight yet. Is this right? Perhaps because it’s within our first three months of this relationship thing. Being his girlfriend and him being my boyfriend, I find that we are well suited and quite happily settled together. I can’t say I’m settling for him. He’s wonderful. And, I’m not sure…

The Gym + Breakfast!!

My Stud Muffin took me to the gym. Stop laughing. … ok, it was quite the show. All the ladies staring at him and men and other genders checking out his body. I wanted to jump him quite a few times!! But I controlled my sweaty self! After, we grabbed a rotisserie chicken, some drinks,…

There are so many things about life that we forget. Something important is definitely the need for quality over quantity. I feel like my Stud Muffin is the Quality man and my weight, right now, is the Quantity. But, I’m trying to increase the quantity of quality in his life as he improves the quality…

Half and Half

Why do people see the glass as half empty when it is half full? Why is there a negative side to the glass’s fullness? Why can’t it simply to filled and left at that? I’ve come to see it as half full of what I’ve got and the openness is the endless possibilities of what…

Well Met

Cupcake, here! Greetings all!